What to Expect
This is such a stressful time for families. It is my goal to make the process a little less scary and confusing. I think it helps to know that the word euthanasia comes from the Greek "eu" meaning well/good and "thanatos" meaning death. Like you, I believe it is our obligation to provide mental and physical health for our pets during their life. It is an unspoken contract that we sign upon first taking them into our home. But, when our pet's needs can no longer be met and they can no longer be free of suffering, then it is also our obligation to give them a "good death." It is probably one of the kindest and most loving gifts we can give them. Unfortunately, as veterinarian Dr. Kathleen Cooney has said, "Sometimes the only way to end our pet's suffering is to make our own begin." With in-home euthanasia, I hope to provide you time to say farewell to your pet in a more intimate, peaceful and comfortable place allowing you to better honor the bond you've created with your beloved pet. Once the difficult decision to pursue humane euthanasia has been made, the family should consider the who, what, where and when.
Who
Considerations should be given to whether extended family, friends, children, and other family pets will be present during your pet's passing. Many people are uncertain how kids will handle such an emotionally difficult time. In my experience, children handle the situation quite well and it may actually help them with the grieving process. Allow them to ask questions prior to our visit, but also feel free to allow them to be curious during the procedure. I will answer their questions simply and honestly. Afterward, you can help the children draw pictures, write songs or stories about their pet, release eco-safe balloons or let them assist in the burial/spreading of ashes. You know your kids best so choose what feels right for you! Of course, if the kids are old enough, they may feel comfortable making their own choice. ​ As far as the presence of other pets, they also seem to do fine being present as long as they are calm and allow you to focus on the pet who is in need. Animals are very individualistic in how they grieve. Some seem to show no real interest in what is happening and others will. If you choose for them to be absent during the procedure, we can allow them some time to see the body afterwards to give them an opportunity to understand what has happened. ​ And what about you? Sometimes, you may not want to be present yourself. That's ok. Do what feels right for you. Also, remember you can step away at any time. Many, if not most, people choose to be with their pet while the sedation takes effect but then go ahead and leave once he or she is no longer aware of their surroundings but before I actually perform the euthanasia.​ ​ If Peaceful Paws is facilitating aftercare and your pet is a larger dog (over 40 pounds), I will need someone willing to act as pall bearer to provide assistance carrying your pet to my vehicle. In very, very large dogs this will likely require a few friends or family members. If you are unable to provide assistance, I can arrange to bring an aid but will need to plan ahead.
What
What type of things can we do to help make our experience more peaceful? I will place a "do not disturb" sign on the entry door after I arrive. Consider turning off cell phones and other electronics. You may want to have soft music. Please let me know if you have any spiritual beliefs that your family would like observed/respected. ​ If your pet is still ambulatory, a trip outside to urinate or have a bowel movement would be best.  ​ If you know your pet will be nervous about a stranger visiting, we can discuss which kinds of sedatives can be used, when and how.  Most often, a quick injection (no worse than a vaccine) is given for sedation. This takes 5-15 minutes to take effect during which you can talk, cuddle, hug and say your farewells. After that, additional medications will be given by injection to perform the actual euthanasia. Because your pet is sedated, there is no pain or fear. I will listen to his/her heart and lungs so that we can be sure of their passing.  ​ The eyes do not usually close when they pass. Sometimes a bit of urine or stool may form. I will be prepared with blankets, towels, and pads for this. Occasionally, just like with people and with natural death, there are a few last muscle twitches, tail movements or sighs. Again, this is not scary or painful. Your pet has passed and the body is just releasing energy. In rare cases, this can actually happen for a while after death. I will auscultate for a heartbeat and listen for breath sounds using a stethoscope to confirm your pet's passing. ​ Please plan at least 30-60minutes for our visit. ​ ​
Where
I intend to offer service within a 15 mile radius of Clarion and will travel beyond that depending on exact location and my availability. Mileage rates will be applied and quoted prior to my visit so that you can prepare for the associated cost.  ​ I can work with you and your pet wherever you feel is best. A favorite bed, hallway, couch, even outside on the porch or in the yard by his or her favorite tree. Some things to consider: ​ Inside, we will want to place blankets under your pet to protect floors and furniture. ​ Outside, we may have to contend with distractions. Things like wind, rain and noise can make sedation take a bit longer especially in animals who tend to be hyper vigilant of their surroundings as is often the case with working breeds. ​ Where can we be that all who are interested in being present can be nearby? Is there enough room?​ ​ If it is a darker location, I may need to use a lamp or flashlight.
When
I am practicing small animal surgery, dentistry and wellness most mornings and afternoons but I am making myself available evenings and weekends to try to make this in-home service available to our community. I will do my very best to get back to you in a timely manner. Unfortunately, at this time, I will most likely not be able to offer emergency service but there's no harm in reaching out to check my availability.